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Being “Alpha” and what it means to me
[Note from David Clare: We are currently open to guest posting. Here, we're posting an excellent article from Flamingo he originally put in the forum. We think it's front page material.]
I’ve been giving the whole concept of “Alphaness” some thought lately, trying to figure out what it means in terms of relationship management.
I think I have reached some conclusions:
Most people will confuse “Being Alpha” with being “Good with women”.
And it is easy to see why: when someone comes to realmodernman.com or any other seduction website, they have a pretty straightforward goal: learn how to pick up girls (or one specific girl). They will soon come to hear about the concept of “Alpha” and what it means. However, if you don’t do too much research, it is very easy to get deceived and start thinking that Alphaness is something that you exhibit only in your interactions with women. Sticking to this idea I feel can hinder your developement as a good “player”.
The way I see it, it works more like this: