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This stunning woman can't get enough of her sexy boyfriend... could this be you?

NOTE: I am speaking in generalities here, as every human being is unique. For example, there are a certain percentage of women who prefer to dominate men in bed, as opposed to being more submissive. No judgment is made either way; I love all kinds of people and I am simply speaking from personal experience. Also, it should be noted that I am not a psychiatrist or medical doctor, and none of the following should be construed as medical advice in any way.

Throughout history, women have often been judged harshly for expressing “too much” interest in sex; even by their boyfriends or husbands! However, if you look at things from a strictly-rational perspective, most healthy women have – almost at all times – these two very powerful desires: Read the rest of this entry »

I was at a little cancer benefit last night at Dragon Bar on Broadway in San Fran, an invitation from Irina S who turned out to be the only person I knew there.

But I made some new friends, had a little epiphany, and learned something interesting.

My little epiphany: women will approach you… but they approach differently than men. At one point during the evening, a woman I had noticed earlier swung by a conversation I was having with my new friend Roderick, sort of shimmied herself as the music ramped up, and hovered around with an expectant look on her face. Right at arms reach. So I reached out and drew her into our conversation. Very nice.

It’s nice to make an explicit connection to hovering as a women’s approach technique.

Now, I mentioned I had noticed this woman earlier in the evening. I was curious about her because she projecting that sort of wanna-be euro look so common among San Fran posers. Or should I say “poseurs?” Posers seriously annoy me. More than a little. But she was doing an unusually good job at appearing European, and I’m getting a lot more mellow in my advanced senility, and she was cute in any case.

Turns out she’s French!

There’s a lesson here: First impressions are important. Equally important is your reaction to your first impression. Had I chosen to be snotty because of my first impression of her as yet another annoying poser, I wouldn’t have made a new friend.

I’ll have more to say about how women approach shortly… in my experience they will practically line up to meet you under the right circumstances.

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• The secrets of Seductive Neurochemistry, revealed!
• A business tip for the recession: how you can offer the same level of service to your customers while cutting costs at the same time
• Learn how men and women get sexually aroused differently from each other
• Find out things you can do immediately, today, to make women start to rate you as more physically attractive
• Learn the two, crucial keys to profitable decision making in life
• Learn about how your diet can affect your spiritual, emotional and physical bodies in very powerful and insidious ways
• Hear about the absolute joy of life that can come through meditation practice
• You cannot change a person, but you can change how they interact with you. Find out how, right now!
• When should a woman finally dump a man? Here’s how she can find out what do to!
• The First Enemy of Knowledge is Fear, the second enemy is Clarity. Find out the Third Enemy to becoming a Man of Knowledge!

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A woman once told me:

“My type of guy is tall, dark and handsome, and has good taste in shoes. Unless I’m in love. Then all bets are off.”

A certain set of women will insist that if man needs to know about women, all he needs to do is ask a woman.

In general, this is bull.

Very, very few women are going to spill the beans on their seduction keys. And most women have them. Most women have some certain narrow set of criteria that makes them absolutely weak in the knees, totally vulnerable to being swept off their feet.

Why should they tell you this?

They shouldn’t.

It’s part of the mystery.

See, you can know everything there is to know about body language, courtship and seduction, social dynamics and female psychology, but none of your knowledge in general tells you anything specific about the woman facing you across the table. To learn about her, you have to be with her. Sure, your knowledge helps, and the more the better to be sure, but you as a man still have to discover her, personally, as a woman.

General knowledge about seduction does not, cannot, replace specific experience with a real, live, breathing and feeling woman by your side. (This is part of why “pick up lines” don’t work in general.)

And this is where the mystery really lives: all the “knowledge” you have about seduction, dating, courtship is nothing compared to unlocking the mystery of the woman in front of you. She will be unique. Your knowledge simply helps you discover who she is.

Now, don’t get me wrong here… some women (not all) will tell you, in detail, exactly how to court them. Other women will give you broad hints (which they consider exact details). But courtship is total supplication of the male to the female. He sells his qualities, she chooses to buy or not. The choice for the interaction… is hers and hers alone. This is something you should remember as a man if you find yourself courting a woman: make sure you’re courting the right woman. You might catch her!

However, a women will tell you her courtship details only under one of two conditions:

1. She is attracted to you anyway.
2. She wants something from you.

If she doesn’t want you courting her… she will tell you with a great degree of conviction to “Just be yourself.” Which —strangely enough — is the only advice you really need, but being yourself is much easier said than done.

Also, as I plan to discuss in an upcoming article, many women don’t really know that much more about dating than men do… but society forces them into a more passive role, taking or leaving rather than “getting.” So a woman might not really know what she wants… but she’ll know what she likes when she feels it!

This beautiful woman is really enjoying being chased around the spring fields by you. Should you move in for the kiss?

I am really excited about today’s show. Today I frankly discuss sensitive topics such as fidelity, cheating, commitment, and becoming a man of knowledge. I’ve always been fascinated with learning, ever since I was a little boy. I am a jack of all trades and know a good amount about a lot of diverse topics. At the age of 34, after a divorce and yet another failed romantic relationship, I realized that although I had always been fascinated by women, I knew absolutely nothing about them. My father was an astute businessman and popular with his peers, and yet right up until his death in 1998 he would continuously complain about his wife (my stepmom). I could never understand why he chose to stay with a woman who he claimed made him so miserable. Finally, in late 2003, I started on my journey to find out all the answers. This show is about what I’ve learned from hard-won experience and from many other wise men and women. 

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• Learn exactly when and how you should pay for things on dates with women
• How can you decide if marriage or commitment is right for you, as a man? 
• Learn the real-life skills you must learn, in advance, in order to be an attractive lover, boyfriend, husband or father
• Learn how to choose the right wife!
• Does making a commitment mean you are never allowed to break it? Find out the truth!
• Is your girlfriend cheating? I tell you exactly what you need to know
• Learn the number one mistake men make when responding to a woman’s demands for commitment
• An interesting article on Race Depriest from The Art of Charm
• The first enemy of knowledge is Fear, which we discussed on the last show. The second enemy is Clarity

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AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• Hear about our invitation to post your articles right here on this blog
• How to know the balance between showing too much jealousy or too much indifference
• What Sperm Wars teaches us about male competition for females, and how you should handle this
• Learn how and why women are both selective and sometimes-promiscuous and what this says about your girlfriend
• Learn the fascinating science behind Fighter Sperm Cells and how your woman’s words and actions are directly causing the production of these within your testicles!
• Why it’s more biologically-profitable for a woman to be vague and implicit about the other men in her life as opposed to explicit
• The book The Lifestyle by Terry Gould discusses the real-life implications in couples with regards to Sperm Wars
• Jealousy and Boredom are polar extremes around a balanced and hot relationship. Learn how to play with that balance!
• How you can use Social Proof to increase fading attraction within your relationship
• Don Juan teaches men like you and me deep things about knowledge and power

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Woman is utterly bored with her date... opening the door for a new man (maybe you?) to enter her life

 

AUDIO NOW LIVE !!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• A woman wants to know how to handle her boyfriend’s jealousy: you might be acting this way with your GF and not even realize it!
• How to know when you should get involved with another person’s problems or run in the other direction
• How to avoid being slotted into the “friends zone” with a woman
• Learn the different needs of women and the unconscious ways in which you’re slotting yourself into their lives
• How women use Rich Descriptions to hypnotize you almost every time they talk to you!
• How to spot a codependent relationship and how to extract yourself from one
• Learn exactly why people stay in relationships that are unhealthy for them and what you can do about it
• Much, much more!

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