Real Modern Man

One of the keys to meeting women in a fun and relaxed way is by being comfortable around them. This means that you are so accustomed to speaking with women, touching women, making them laugh, giving them a good time, and so on that you don’t worry about being able to do these things. Note I used the word “accustomed”. You may still get nervous. You may still get excited. Those things are fine, and indeed are good. They will add tension and spice to the reaction. If you can feel comfortable with a woman and build sexual tension, she will reflect that. However, if you’re not used to talking to women, then no amount of clever one-liners will fix that. If you’re not used to touching women, then you will have a very difficult time escalating it to a physical relationship.

What this means is that before you worry about how to have sex with a woman, or how to get her into a relationship, you must first master the basics of human interaction. That means you have to practice, and you have to practice on everyone. If you only look for that one perfect woman when you’re out, and she’s the only woman you interact with, then you will be extremely nervous. Not only will you not learn to be comfortable, you will in fact train yourself to be less comfortable. Talk to everyone you come across. Make them laugh. Touch them. Make these things natural for yourself. Then when it comes time to that attractive woman, sure you’ll still feel nervous, but at least “what do I say” and “when and how should I touch her” won’t be on your list of preoccupations. You can instead focus on getting to know her and having a good time.

For those guys who already have a girlfriend, you may think that you’re done and you can just relax. No! You have to continue to practice and demonstrate your comfort with women. This will show your girlfriend that you don’t need her in your life, and she will appreciate you as a result. If she only ever sees you sitting around at home playing video games, she will take you for granted. There will be no tension or challenge for her. Also, if you’re not used to relating to people in a normal way and you see your girlfriend flirting with other guys, you risk becoming very jealous, which will damage the relationship. However, if you flirt with other women just as much (if not more so), you will realize that it’s not a big deal, and it will make the relationship better for the both of you.

If you are not comfortable around women, then that is the first thing you need to fix.

~Tubarao

Porfirio Rubirosa was a big hit with the ladies. You can learn all his secrets!

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• Why it’s important for you to work on yourself from the inside out
• How your mind-body yoga effects all that you do in life
• Learn about manly presence in the face of powerful, feminine energy
• Find out what women really find sexy in a man
• The conclusion of my interview series with Brent Smith

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Beautiful woman chatting with you online, waiting for you to invite her out!

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• A warm welcome to the crew of new listeners coming over from Brent Smith’s entourage
• Is it wrong to use a “Crutch” to get what you want out of life? Find out the hard truth
• Neediness Management Revisited
• Why I think that having sex with your co-workers is always a mistake
• If you’re socially unskilled, be sure to check out Meetup.com
• Find out whether you’re capable of altering your genetic makeup if you’re predisposed to unattractive traits
• Learn the most effective way to visualize your desired outcome in life
• Hear Brent’s secret to quick sex without “chasing” women
• Learn what “creepy” means from the woman’s perspective and how to avoid these unattractive behaviors!
• A neat little trick as to how to recover from an awkward situation
• Learn a true insider’s secrets about what it’s really like to deal with Playboy Playmates and attend parties at the Mansion

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This man is enjoying a private striptease. Could this be you?

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• Can you be a quiet and reserved type and still a sexually attractive man? Find out now!
• Hear the inside scoop on how we created Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man
• Learn the keys to setting up your very own Personal Accountability Program
• Hear about my exciting plans to create a brand-new, explicit and tell-all book, The Tall Tales of a 21st Century Playboy
• How Carlos de Castaneda wants us to take a radically new view of the world
• Learn how and why the way you look in the mirror is crucial to your success with women
• Some astonishing insight into the life of a supermodel from a man who dates them regularly
• The inside secrets about what the most beautiful girls will and will not do when they go to a social gathering
• The truth about what you can learn in a weekend bootcamp with a pro and what takes longer to learn

Some book recommendations courtesy of Matt from Minneapolis:

• The Science of Mind by Ernest Holmes
• Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman
• Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
• The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
• The Biology of Belief: Unleashing the Power of Consciousness, Matter, & Miracles by Bruce Lipton
• Evolve Your Brain: The Science of Changing Your Mind by Joseph Dispenza
• No Boundary by Ken Wilber

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This guy's biggest problem is a lack of concentration. Don't let this happen to you!

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• How to use Mindfulness Meditation to reprogram deep subconscious patterns of thought
• The procedure for sending movie and TV clips to us for analysis
• As A Man Thinketh shows the power our minds have on our external circumstances
• The movie Life Is Beautiful is another powerful example of mind over matter
• Shinzen Young’s The Science of Enlightenment is very educational and has some great guided meditations. Be sure to get the audio version!

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There’s lots of ways to “get the girl.” You can go fast, you can go slow, you can go either direct, or indirect, or collect her into your social circle.

In all cases, the girl isn’t “yours” until she feels she yours. Then she will tell everyone – including you – that she’s your girl.

Your opinion has nothing to do with it.

Here’s the deal: if you’re more comfortable with long game or indirect or slow seduction, then by all means, go for it! .

But…

Be aware you are screening out women who want to be swept off their feet!

If another man steps up and takes her… you never had her, so you haven’t lost her.

If you are NOT comfortable sweeping women off their feet, trying to tool another man for “taking your woman” exposes your game as weak. Inner game weak. Don’t do it.

If you feel envy or jealousy about it, step up your game. There’s a lot of women out there fantasizing about being swept off their feet. Go get some of them. Do it now.

That’s all.

My Anusara Yoga Instructor asked all of us to prepare a short essay on why we choose to practice yoga, what it means to us and what purpose it serves in our lives. Below is the text of what I submitted today. 

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Why I Study Yoga

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