Comments on: Do not Fake Disinterest! http://realmodernman.com/do-not-fake-disinterest/ Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man Thu, 08 Oct 2009 22:35:41 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: JWS http://realmodernman.com/do-not-fake-disinterest/comment-page-1/#comment-21 JWS Fri, 12 Sep 2008 14:46:16 +0000 http://realmodernman.com/main1/?p=182#comment-21 Good point! I would only add, that the best way to let her know that she is not your first priority... is to actually have other priorities! Really this comes down to a question of <i>congruence</i>. If you are focussing on something besides her because that's who you naturally are, this is a much better place to be in than memorizing a technique. Would you agree? Good point! I would only add, that the best way to let her know that she is not your first priority… is to actually have other priorities!

Really this comes down to a question of congruence. If you are focussing on something besides her because that’s who you naturally are, this is a much better place to be in than memorizing a technique. Would you agree?

]]> By: Lobo Feroz http://realmodernman.com/do-not-fake-disinterest/comment-page-1/#comment-20 Lobo Feroz Fri, 12 Sep 2008 07:09:53 +0000 http://realmodernman.com/main1/?p=182#comment-20 Hi Joseph, it's Wulfen (from now on "Lobo Feroz" here). As always the trick here is to be genuine, however in this case I think there are several ways to fake disinterest that won't trigger the alarms on the girl. For instance, <i>focusing on something else</i>: if you concentrate on something else instead of (or besides) the hot girl, she can sense that she's not your first priority. Sometimes this is as simple as when in an interaction with several people (example: two girls, your male friend, and you) you split equally the attention between the rest of the people. So the girl can't actually tell if you're attracted to her, or just being sociable. Regards, Lobo Hi Joseph, it’s Wulfen (from now on “Lobo Feroz” here).

As always the trick here is to be genuine, however in this case I think there are several ways to fake disinterest that won’t trigger the alarms on the girl.

For instance, focusing on something else: if you concentrate on something else instead of (or besides) the hot girl, she can sense that she’s not your first priority.

Sometimes this is as simple as when in an interaction with several people (example: two girls, your male friend, and you) you split equally the attention between the rest of the people. So the girl can’t actually tell if you’re attracted to her, or just being sociable.

Regards,

Lobo

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