Real Modern Man

Ok I am pretty sure feelings and emotions are the same thing.  Aleast according to my definitions.  So, I talk to women about emotions and the power of the mind. “Why?” you ask.  Because IMO it works.   Also because it is what is true in my life. Basically I tell them “the mind is very powerful” and guide them through some examples. (Which I assume is pretty intriguing) Ok I am gonna get to far into it and I don't have the time right now so I will say that talking all about our emotions helps her past that “LMR” (Last minute resistance) I bring up the ASD (anti-slut defense) in different words and make her see that she can go for what she wants and not worry about what her girlfriends are gonna say.  Anyway, I am not gonna keep babbling about that.  Here is my first question : How do you feel when it isn't going the way you wanted to go with a chick? For example an attractive chick approaches you. You lead her to sex. You notice you like how you feel around her. So later you notice she isn't jocking you as hard. Does it make you feel a certain way about yourself? Does it give you emotions you don't like?

P.S. Have all the copies of your book been sent out, because I think that would be an interesting read.

Here is my first question : How do you feel when it isn't going the way you wanted to go with a chick?

This is a really good question!

I don't have an easy answer for it.  It's sort of a self-referential feeling.  That feeling you get when you feel that things aren't going the way you think they ought to be going.

One of your following question is really the crux of the matter, and answering that requires first answering this question: When you get that feeling that things aren't going well with a woman,how do you know how you should feel about it?

Another way to see it is: when you feel bad about a woman, is it something objective (something you can't change) about her, or is it something about you (e.g., insecurity) that you can change?

If you can answer this last question, you should be able to figure out what kind of action you need to take going forward.

This is a good topic to introduce in PFP.  Thank you for suggesting it.

-dc

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