Real Modern Man

first of all i'm a big fan of the book and an avid listener of the jws show but i'm in a little bit of a bind here i may because i'm inexperienced and this maybe not a problem for you experienced guys but here is the deal:

i'm kinda in to this girl which is kind of an enigma to me she isnt that good looking but isnt that unattractive as well you can say she is quite average looking so this is what i did:

i told her i liked her and i'm kinda in to her but she told me in a very unclear way which kinda translates to “i'm not in to you” so i kinda got rejected. oh i forgot ot mention we were friends before i told her that, anyway after that i kinda avoided her and interestingly enough in about two weeks or so i got a text message from her asking me why am i avoiding her. so i told her why and she told me she still wants to be friends so fine since i'm a bit inexperienced i did what joseph sugested on his show “i hung in there” for the experience. but here is the problem the longer i hung in there the further i'm falling for this girl which i don't know if is good for me or not. now when i try to tell her this there is kind of an unusual silence i.e. she either hang up change topic or simply doesn't reply i learned from the jws show that i should be comfortable with the silence but i kinda feel i'm in a bind here maybe because i'm a bit inexperienced that i can't understand her “womanize” expresions but i'm kinda contemplating on something here:

should i end everything to do with this girl and move on or is there anything i can do to break this cycle?