Yes, it's true, men and women have different perspectives… but a lot of the strategy is just the same!
Two things to think about to get you started:
1. The idea that there is One True Soul Mate is pretty much a myth. If you can accept that as myth, it let's you be much more free to accept men you are dating to just be themselves. That is, it's easier for you to manage any feelings of attachment that always happen.
2. Take dating 1 day at a time, and always have something else going on, just in case. That something else could be reading a book or knitting a sweater, or programming computers or whatever. Maybe even a different date. Doesn't matter. What matters is not having your emotions and sense of self-worth depend on how well any particular date turns out.
There's loads of dating sites for women. Some of them may be good. Most of them seem to be full of unhappy, bitter angry women complaining about how lame men are, for whatever reason. This is not a helpful attitude. Bitterness and cynicism are not universally attractive. Happy attitude goes a long way!
Broaching our material to men… good question. We're very interested in this ourselves, and not just because we want to sell books (which we do of course), but in a larger sense to help men reach their full masculine potential.
Can you trust any of the women? I am currently reading “Tripping the Prom Queen” and I understand that sometimes women are insanely and destructively envious.
Looking forward to hearing more from you!
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