How to distinguish Good Girls from LSE LD Girls
Gents,
in the course of your pick-up and seduction it is important for you to become able to distinguish between two kind of girls who may seem to be very, very close to each other.
Sometimes they may seem so close to each other that you will be blinded and choose for the LSE LD.
A Good Girl and a “Nice Girl” are not the same thing. A Good Girl is not “nice” – she is fair.
An effect of your Madonna / Whore complex is that may you may feel that a Good Girl is someone who is “shy”, “reserved in regard to sex” or even worse “makes the guy wait for sex.”
When you meet the above features in a woman what you are seeing in front of you is not a Good Girl: it is a LSE LD (low self-esteem low drive) girl.
A Good Girl has usually a good relationship with her own sexuality. In a word she likes sex.
Unless she is undergoing some life crisis a Good Girl is most of the time positive, “solar.”
If you see someone who is “suffering too much” all the time or exhibiting self-sacrificing behavior all the time you are dealing with a LSE LD (low self-esteem low drive) girl and not with a Good Girl.
To distinguish between the two women you can run several tests on the girl early on in the pick-up
- She is uncomfortable with kino in spite of having enough comfort otherwise with you: she is either not attracted to you or is a LSE LD girl
- Her story is full of “good things she did to others” which ended up so that all the parties involved were suffering in a way or another: she is not a Good Girl! She is a LSE LD girl ! When Good Girls help others the outcome is happiness, not suffering!
- Negative thoughts and statements about female and male sexuality: she is not a Good Girl ! No matter how empathy she may show next her! She is trouble.
Differentiating the Good Girl from the LSE LD girl is an important skill when screening for Good GIrls and it requires a lot of field experience.
Cheers Franco
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Cool.
Is there such a thing as an LD HSE girl?
Harold
24 Sep 08 at 4:33 pm
Hello Harold,
sure there is.
Actually they are very much present on the Planet. In my experience many women are HSE LD girls.
See these are very good women for men who are career oriented, want a calm life and do not miss too much passion in their relationships with women.
They make very good wives and mothers. Actually the whole meaning of the HSE LD woman in evolutionary terms is that she is programmed to be a good mother.
She can be a good companion but he has to be a constant challenge to her.
What makes a HSE LD woman horny is – in fact – the Prince. The more he is unavailable to her the more she gets sexually aroused.
She can become for limited times HD under the effect of a very strong challenge.
Cheers Franco
FrancoPUA
27 Sep 08 at 10:32 am
Hm, I didn’t know that. Thanks for responding. Is this why many men complain that their wives don’t want to have sex with them because they don’t want too much passion?
Thanks,
Harold
27 Sep 08 at 2:29 pm
Harold,
A woman who is really “with it” in men’s terms is this HSE/LD woman.
Where most men drop the ball with such women is failing to provide for her in several ways:
1. Appropriate challenges for her femininity. If you are sufficiently and unapologetically masculine, this will happen naturally (”Damn. Check out those ta tas!”)
2. Failing to provide her with a sense of contribution to the relationship. It doesn’t much matter where you are going, as long as she feels she has a worthwhile role in the relationship.
3. Accepting her libido without reserve. Part of the joy of the very feminine woman is providing for her man… taking care of his needs at times, when she has no such needs. Strangely, your ability take her femininity without apology and without reserve, often serves to increase her libido!
As Franco says, be a Prince among men, so that she may claim you as her Prince.
The key point here is understanding that the hardest thing of all for such women is finding a man to love. They are bursting with love, with so little opportunity to share. A woman is not nearly as concerned with finding a man to love her, that’s a much easier task than finding a man she can love. This point alone is worthy of it’s own essay.
In reality, most women are MSE/MD Good Girls. That is, most women have various insecurities about various aspects of themselves and their relationships, their libido waxes and wanes over time for various reasons, and they are rather more than less concerned about how their friends and family think of them. If you accept her emotions and hold your standard of behavior high, bouts of insecurity and low self-esteem become temporary episodes, not worth time dwelling over.
David
28 Sep 08 at 9:03 pm
That’s very interesting. I never saw it that way. There’s a guy named Entropy4 who has some quality stuff as well, and he talks about “owning one’s identity” especially as a sexual man. I guess it’s sort of like this, huh?
Cool beans.
Harold
Harold
29 Sep 08 at 4:01 pm
Harold, addressing your other question about women not wanting to have sex with their husbands.
They don’t want to have sex because they are not attracted to their husbands.
It’s really that simple.
They may love their husbands very much, and not want to leave them (or have the husbands leave), but sex is off the table, period.
This is why we have always claimed “The game starts for real in relationships.”
Any fool can learn to pick up one woman after another using the same old schtick.
It’s much harder to pick up the same woman year in and year out.
That’s why learning pickup is a valuable skill.
David
29 Sep 08 at 5:48 pm