Stunning Brunette Contemplating her Absent Lover

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! Highlights of this EPISODE:

• Mistakes I made in recent romantic relationships that I want you to avoid
• How to deal with women who put up a tough masculine shell and make them purr like kittens
• The positive aspects of the PUA community and what you can put into practice today for real results
• Learn about the type of man who gets sucked into the PUA community and what this says about your potential with the dating world. 
• How playing team sports can make you better with women
• Women do the choosing, and what you need to know about how they choose men, before you approach
• Keys to interracial dating that you need to understand before you approach a woman
• How to turn an Adventuress into a housewife, and how to decide whether that’s a healthy course of action for you or not
• Player Supreme’s Explicit Sexual Techniques and how to “out freak a Freak (Adventuress)
• A easy and practical tip to improve your self esteem, that you can put into action right this minute
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0067 Interview with Player Supreme 02… how to amp up sexual polarity… the advantages of platonic relationships… explicit sexual techniques!

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Those of you currently registered know we sent out an advance page from an upcoming product on women in popular entertainment. This was a review the original Italian version of the movie Swept Away, with Practical Female Psychology principles explained, and a long list of relevant questions to answer after watching the movie.

We have another page coming out on the movie Lust Caution.

The movies of course are great entertainment, but they are also more than that.

The questions are designed to make you think about the movie in terms of male/female relationships.

RMMI mini-eCourse in Practical Female Psychology

Each of these advance copies is a like a lesson in a mini-eCourse.

We guarantee that if you take the time to answer these questions as accurately and truthfully as you can, you *will* gain considerable understanding of women, and understanding of yourself. Put in the time, reap the rewards.

WARNING: these advance copies are DENSE. Narrow margin, single space, there is a LOT of information here.

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0066 Interview with Player Supreme… how economic and romantic success correlate… determine a woman’s sexual cycles

     Concerned man observing his apathetic, gorgeous woman

AUDIO NOW LIVE!!! Highlights of this EPISODE

• How you can get two free episodes of Practical Female Psychology with Joseph W. South
• How to know when you should and should not apologize as a man
• The differences between masculine and feminine conversation and when you want to use either/or
• Understand the reasons why women are so sensitive to emotional subcommunication and what you need to do about it
• How do you be assertive towards what you want and still be the prize in the relationship? Find out here
• Find out how you should respond when a woman says “leave me alone!”… it’s often counterintuitive!
• Translating baffling female language into something you can understand as a man; a real-life example by Franco
• Find out exactly how to make a snap decision: should you keep interacting with a woman or break off the communication?
• How you can use eye contact to assert dominance over other males without provoking them to a fight
• The proper way to flirt with women who are outside of your age range
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0065 Making apologies – Masculine and feminine conversation styles – Making eye contact with other men – Flirting with women outside of your age range

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Actress Ok So-ri convicted of adultery

As the world economy melts down, a large number of what we consider our “enlightened” social mores or behavior is thrown right out along with demonstrably idiotic economic behavior. That is, humans cannot seem to keep from throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

One of South Korea’s most famous actresses was convicted of adultery Wednesday in a high-profile case that drew renewed attention to a decades-old law prohibiting extramarital affairs.

Ok So-ri, who was handed a suspended jail term, had lost a battle in October to have the ban declared unconstitutional.

The AP article (From sfgate.com) goes on to indict Confucianism as the social culprit, but I believe that is wrong. People familiar with Koreans know that a very conservative branch of Presbyterianism profoundly influences Korean culture.

A comment following the San Francisco Chronicle article is especially pertinent:

Be not ashamed of mistakes and thus make them crimes. Confucius

What do you think: Will growing economic conservatism result in social conservatism?

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Social Mores Coming Back Into Fashion: South Korean Actress Publicly Humiliated For Adultery

NOW LIVE!!! Highlights of this EPISODE:

• New, more interactive show format lets me help you better
• The subtle cues you are giving off to women every moment of every day… and the clues they are giving to you.
• Learn how all of us are being manipulators to one degree or another, and why it mostly doesn’t matter.
• How to overcome your fear of public speaking and some of the immediate benefits you’ll see in your life and in dealing with women
• Joseph’s high school adventure at the age of 21 demonstrates how important persistence is to success. 
• When it’s appropriate to buy gifts for a woman and when it will destroy any chance you had of getting sexual with her
• What my friend Jack Bauer in Madrid, Spain learned about the most appropriate and effective way to show a woman you like her
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0064 Show Your Interest without Giving Gifts

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NOW LIVE!!! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

• My girl (The Dancer) from podcast 0058 makes a surprise appearance… find out what I did and did NOT do.
• Why you need to keep putting people into categories and yet remain non-judgmental, if you want better quality women in your life.
• How to have more time, make more money, and get more energy to maximize your gains, minimize your losses.
• Why respect for men is one of the most important qualities in a woman you’re considering for a relationship, and how to tell when she really respects you.
• The JWS World Tour Continues: The brand new experience I’ll be undertaking in an ancient European city.
• Zan’s Ars Amorata 90-day Transformation Program: How I am benefitting from an immersive instruction from a modern day master.
• Zan’s answer about whether looks matter to women: what you can actually do about your looks that will have an effect on the women you want.
• The difference between men and women when it comes to choosing partners
• The qualities women actually look for in a man and the female psychology behind them
• Why a mature man will be able to look beyond a woman’s looks
• How to make a woman literally adore you
• Become a compelling man and virtually eliminate the need to “pick up”
• Can any man be taught to be successful with women? Zan’s frank answer
• The psychological difference between Tiger Woods and the average golfer
• The key concepts of Presence and Recovery
• The inside scoop! What Zan loves the most about women!
• How Zan handles catty or bitchy women
• How Zan used to select women for relationships and how he does so now
• A “24-hour relationship” vs. a “one-night stand”
• Zan’s own World Tour and how he runs it

CONCLUDING SONG: Daft Punk is Playing at my House by LCD Soundsystem

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0063 Interview with Zan Part II: A Modern Master Schools You In Living And Loving

OK, I have to admit that when we bought our home we borrowed every penny the bank would lend us, and it is hard to criticize others for doing the same, but back then banks used sensible rules to decide what the limits were.

If the old rules for home loans had been followed the current mortgage meltdown never would have happened. Those rules protected both the banker and borrower. Neither is well served by a default and ensuing bankruptcy. The old rules were the product of hard experience. They did disqualify some from buying the house they wanted, but in disqualifying them they were protecting people from buying a house they couldn’t afford.

We are now in a new era, where the bank telling you that you can’t afford to pay back the home loan you are asking for is discrimination against the poor. Rather than face discrimination charges in court, the banks removed the barriers preventing foolish home buying decisions. That means you now have to make this decision for yourself. Politicians can repeal the rules, but they can’t change the hard reality the rules were based upon. If you violate the traditional rules of home buying, the penalty will be that you find yourself with house payments you cannot afford to meet and you will go bankrupt.

Buying a home is the largest and single most important financial transaction you will ever make. Do it right, and it will help you to build a solid financial foundation that will make the rest of your life better. Do it wrong, and you are in for a world of pain, humiliation, and poverty that could have been avoided.

The best guide for today is what worked in the past. The bankers may have thrown out the old rules, but I am old enough to have bought a house under them and still remember. The rules are simple, but designed to limit home loans to those who have the ability to pay them back. If you plan to buy a house, you would be well advised to follow these rules no matter what the mortgage salesman says. They are simple and you will easily be able to understand them. You will end up with a lower price home or perhaps no home following them, but they are designed to keep you from deluding yourself into thinking you can afford that which you cannot. Too large of a fraction of your lifetime earnings are at stake to act on delusions.

Following are the old financial rules of thumb regarding the financing of your first home.

Down payment:You should have at least a 10% down payment, preferably one you saved yourself so the money really means something to you. If mom and dad give you the down payment it is just Monopoly money and the amount of work and sacrifice that the down payment represents is not clear to you. Saving the money yourself demonstrates that you can forego current gratification for a greater long term benefit. The down payment says that you are a serious person, doing a serious thing, and covers you and the lender in case there is a downturn in housing values, by preventing you from going into negative equity. (You owe more than the house is worth, a bad position to be in.)

Closing Costs: You will need to pay an additional 2% of the amount financed up front for various documents and fees, plus “Points”, which are up front profit for the bank and a commission for the loan officer who sold you the mortgage.

This adds up to about 12% of the price of the house. If you can’t put that much money on the table, you can’t afford that house. The corollary of this is, the most expensive house you can afford is eight times the amount of money you are willing and able to withdraw from savings.

Repairs and first month purchases: If the house is not new, you need additional money for any repairs that are needed now, and a reserve for stuff that will break soon after you move in. An old house is like an old car, there is always another repair just around the corner, usually at the worst possible time. If the house doesn’t have a functional stove, refrigerator, washing machine, dryer, furnace, and water heater, you will have to buy or repair them the first few days. You will need to have extra money set aside to cover stuff like this.

Monthly Payment: Your monthly house payment is comprised of P.I.T.I.; banker jargon for Principal (Paying off the loan), Interest, Taxes, and Insurance. Your monthly payment (P.I.T.I.) should not be more than 28% of your income. Your combined payments for mortgage, other loans like car loans, and credit card payments should not be more than 35% of your income. If you run the numbers, based on a 6% mortgage and 3% property tax, it works out that the most expensive house you can afford is about three times your annual income if you have no outstanding consumer debt. Higher taxes, interest rates, and outstanding consumer debt reduce that ratio.

The numbers above are based on long experience loaning people money. People who can meet these standards usually are successful at paying back their mortgage. Those who do not meet these standards are likely to default. These standards exist to protect both you and the bank; neither of you benefits from a default.

Adjustable Rate Mortgages (ARM): Do not take an ARM. If you need the slightly lower rate of an ARM to be able to afford the house you want, you cannot afford that house. It is not smart money management. If the rates go up, which can happen unexpectedly, your payments will go way up and you will be screwed. The people who are losing their homes now are mostly those who took ARMs and had small down payments.

Refinancing: If you are refinancing your home it should only be to shorten the mortgage, or pay for major improvements to the property. If rates go down, or your ability to pay off the mortgage improves, it is wise to refinance. Lower rates and/or a larger payment will reduce the number of years required to pay off the mortgage and can save you very large amounts of money.

If you refinance your home to get cash to pay off consumer debt, buy luxury items, or reduce your monthly payment, it is a major danger sign. It means you are living beyond your means and are literally mortgaging your future to cover excessive spending today.

Second Mortgages: Also called home equity loans, are taking out a new mortgage using the accrued equity in your home as collateral. The money is not free, and you will end up with a larger mortgage payment for many years. Unless the money is to finance major improvements to the property, they are a bad idea. If the money is for buying a car, boat, or some luxury item like a super-size TV, or to take an expensive vacation, or paying off consumer debt run up buying such items, you are literally mortgaging your future to pay for a lifestyle you cannot afford, and you will be poorer in the future to pay for today’s pleasures.

If you have to refinance or take out a second mortgage to pay off your credit card debt, you should cut up the cards, close the accounts, and learn to live on your current income. You have just demonstrated that you can not handle having a credit card responsibly.

I know that much of this may seem obvious to many, but if it seems obvious, you are not the person this message is aimed at. Judging from the current situation, there are many who never heard these truths, or ignored them thinking that if the banker is willing to loan me the money, it must be OK. Well, once upon a time, when bankers made loans with their own money that was true. Today, your mortgage is simply an investment vehicle, and the mortgage broker, who is really just a salesman, sells it the same day to an investment firm who will then bundle it up with a lot of other mortgages and sell the bundle on an exchange. The person making the loan gets their money that afternoon and never has to worry about it again. This leaves you as the only person looking out for your best interests. Ignore this responsibility at great peril.

Never forget; the only person who cares what happens to you is you.

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The Old Rules

So your hosts David, Joseph and Franco have been getting our lives and loves squared away over the last few weeks. We recommend you do too.

This is an excellent time to contact your broker to ensure your financial well-being is preserved, to anticipate changes in business practice at your place of employment, and reflect a bit on what you find necessary to live, not just convenient or preferable.

Such times come and go, always have, always will. They never last all that long in retrospect, but while they are ongoing, a little preparation beforehand pays off!

Feel free to add a comment on your personally economy!

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Quick note on what we’re up to here at RMMI

in the course of your pick-up and seduction it is important for you to become able to distinguish between two kind of girls who may seem to be very, very close to each other.

Sometimes they may seem so close to each other that you will be blinded and choose for the LSE LD.

A Good Girl and a “Nice Girl” are not the same thing. A Good Girl is not “nice” - she is fair.

An effect of your Madonna / Whore complex is that may you may feel that a Good Girl is someone who is “shy”, “reserved in regard to sex” or even worse “makes the guy wait for sex.”

When you meet the above features in a woman what you are seeing in front of you is not a Good Girl: it is a LSE LD (low self-esteem low drive) girl.

A Good Girl has usually a good relationship with her own sexuality. In a word she likes sex. 

Unless she is undergoing some life crisis a Good Girl is most of the time positive, “solar.” 

If you see someone who is “suffering too much” all the time or exhibiting self-sacrificing behavior all the time you are dealing with a LSE LD (low self-esteem low drive) girl and not with a Good Girl.

To distinguish between the two women you can run several tests on the girl early on in the pick-up

- She is uncomfortable with kino in spite of having enough comfort otherwise with you: she is either not attracted to you or is a LSE LD girl

- Her story is full of “good things she did to others” which ended up so that all the parties involved were suffering in a way or another: she is not a Good Girl! She is a LSE LD girl ! When Good Girls help others the outcome is happiness, not suffering!

- Negative thoughts and statements about female and male sexuality: she is not a Good Girl ! No matter how empathy she may show next her! She is trouble.

Differentiating the Good Girl from the LSE LD girl is an important skill when screening for Good GIrls and it requires a lot of field experience.

Cheers Franco

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How to distinguish Good Girls from LSE LD Girls