Real Modern Man

Gentlemen,

Everything we teach here, everything we write, is attempting to help you just be a normal man who is comfortable with women.

It isn’t a “lifestyle.”

It isn’t a “secret club.”

And it isn’t something you should feel the need to label yourself with.

The fact is this: social discourse on relationships, sex and women is dominated by women. Socially, outside of our little “hothouse” here, it is not possible to have a “normal” conversation about the issues we discuss here. The discussion itself is abnormal. Highly abnormal.

That’s just the way it.

As men, we can change the discourse, but the change must be organic, and it must be “normal.” That is, discussions of sex, relationships and women with anyone, male or female, outside the self-development community should be brief, authoritative, and ended very quickly with a polite change of subject.

Trying to make people “see the light,” introducing your latest “technique,” or expounding your most recent workshop or “group” experience into an otherwise normal conversation between normal people acting socially normal comes across as weird and jarring. Very weird. And very jarring. It demonstrates to people your self-absorption, not what you perceive as your skill relating to people.

So don’t do it.