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You Can’t Lose Something You Never Had
There’s lots of ways to “get the girl.” You can go fast, you can go slow, you can go either direct, or indirect, or collect her into your social circle.
In all cases, the girl isn’t “yours” until she feels she yours. Then she will tell everyone – including you – that she’s your girl.
Your opinion has nothing to do with it.
Here’s the deal: if you’re more comfortable with long game or indirect or slow seduction, then by all means, go for it! .
But…
Be aware you are screening out women who want to be swept off their feet!
If another man steps up and takes her… you never had her, so you haven’t lost her.
If you are NOT comfortable sweeping women off their feet, trying to tool another man for “taking your woman” exposes your game as weak. Inner game weak. Don’t do it.
If you feel envy or jealousy about it, step up your game. There’s a lot of women out there fantasizing about being swept off their feet. Go get some of them. Do it now.
That’s all.